Ultimate Kissing Guide: Tricks To Being The Best Kisser Ever


Do you want to be the best kisser in the world? This guide will show you a few techniques that might just get you to that point.

Now a good kisser, is one who is willing to be creative and try new things. Sometimes this may be goofy, sensual, passionate, or even lead to funny mishaps.

My goal here and as I am writing this post is to take you average to decent kissers out there and add a few tricks to your kissing arsenal to mix things up. Who knows you may become the best kisser ever!


Heres a few of my tricks:

Eskimo Kisses Are A Good Thing:

Not only are they playful, romantic, and tender but they are also great as a build up. Before your first kiss, eskimo kiss her and stay really close. There is something really hot about being less than an inch away from each other with your noses touching. All of that sexual tension of the first kiss is in the air and it’s an awesome move.

Rapid fire:

If things start getting mundane and you are not actually escalating beyond foreplay, then a good way to add some excitement is to do a bunch of small kisses in row. Just start machine gunning smooches at her when she least expects it for a few seconds. She will think it was really cute and silly.

Tongue Bite/Swirl:

I am sure by now you know all about the lip suck and lip nibble. If she sticks her tongue out a little into your mouth it is really sensual to create a vacuum around her tongue and suck it into your mouth then either close down gently on it with your teeth just barely or roll your tongue around it and then let go of it.

The Mishap:

Another really silly way to change the pace is to miss kiss her, go in for the lips and then kiss her on the side of her mouth (half cheek half lips.) Then act like you are trying to correct this but “accidently” do it on the other side. You can continue and her chin or wherever. If you do this quickly it’s quite funny.

The Tickle Kiss:

Start kissing a girl and in the middle of a french or other intense kiss start tickling her but Do Not Stop Kissing just try to keep kissing her as she tries to stop from laughing. It is so fun.

The Nose Peck:

            While kissing her every once in a while you can lift up right after a kiss and give her a peck right on the tip of her nose. She will think it is the most adorable thing ever.

The Up and Down:

Simple but fun. Kiss her upper lip quickly and then quickly kiss her bottom lip and repeat the process a few times up down up down.

The Twist:

Suck her bottom lip and which ever side you are slanted towards begin pivoting to the other side of her nose without letting go of the lip. It is tough but fun.

The Soft Soft Soft Hard:

Kiss her very very gently, and try to get softer and softer to where your lips are barely even touching and then after you are almost losing touch press your lips against hers firmly for a really powerful kiss. The difference of extremes not only adds some excitement but a rush as well.

The Loud Kiss:

Kiss her and make as much of a smooching and kissing sound as possible. Then tell her to try to make one as loud as she can on you. Always pretty funny.

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Now I know these are kind of off the wall, but keep in mind I am assuming you know all the other stuff. That is the whole point of these anyway to be different and memorable.

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February 25th, 2008 6:15 am

Right. Try most of these and watch her freak out. Judging a kiss is like judging favorite colors, people. It’s too subjective. No one kiss works for all women and so many things go into making a kiss that there isn’t any magic technique. Just do it and make the most of it. If she doesn’t like it, try something different on another girl.

February 25th, 2008 7:20 am

It is subjective I will agree, but I wouldn’t say it was like judging colors, there isn’t a right and wrong answer. The way to be a good kisser is to be able to adapt to the subjectivity of the person and alot of these tricks are great. I have never actually had a bad response from any of these with any woman and I’ve done them 100’s of times.

Also I am not suggesting you do all of these on your first date these should just be thrown in once in while to mix things up.

french dude
August 13th, 2008 4:18 am

i guess in france we do that a lot. i mean you aren’t teaching me anything there.
date demon is right you need to adapt to a girl hihi
and to be the best kisser just be sensual and natural nothing more man be cool with yourself and let the magic happen. we go farer in france, very far :|

August 21st, 2008 11:49 am

I knew all the tips that are written on this site. I want to learn something fresh… :D

May 9th, 2009 4:25 pm

well all i can say is iv’e already done these and they are very funny. he gets a kick out of them and i laugh too. it’s expecially on the loud one when people are arround because they get grossed out but it’s still fun and very hot. Lol :)

November 20th, 2009 11:49 pm

Okay i was pretty bored so i went on this site and read all this stuff. A few days ago my boyfrined started to do this stuff and like now i think he might have looked at this site! or something!! cuz he used to suck and now its like so much fun kissing him cuz hes spontaneous!
(i love the soft soft soft hard one ;) )

December 20th, 2009 10:58 pm

A really fun one is if you ask her permission first to try something new and get a piece of ice. Use your tongue to push the piece of ice between the two of you. Its really funny to see the reaction of the other person.

January 15th, 2010 10:16 pm

Most of them sound pretty adorable to me so backoff (:

October 26th, 2010 4:26 am

My boyfriend gets me by caressing my lips with his fingers while hovering very close… then he parts my lips with his fingers and kisses me fully on the mouth…mmmm..

November 29th, 2010 5:44 pm

a new one you might like is:
in the middle of kissi,g right after the little break you take once in a while, come close to here like you’re gonna kiss her. at the last moment take your head SLIGHTLY back and wait for the smile :) then you can kiss her back fast while she’s still figuring out your last move