Peacocking is discussed quite a bit within the dating community. The term itself usually means dressing in a certain way to separate you from other men. Now while some take this to mean dressing outrageously, a lot of men believe peacocking should be done only slightly or to accentuate your own personality.
No matter what your definition of peacocking is I have realized something quite significant about this phenomenon. Naturals peacock as well. In the seduction community a “natural” is a guy that is as it would imply naturally good with women.
The term peacocking was originally coined by Mystery. This idea originated with him and is largely considered a tactic exclusive to the dating community insiders.
That is just not true though. Lately I have noticed a commonality between almost every guy that is a friend of mine and is a “natural.” Almost every guy I know that is a “natural” peacocks.
I really didn’t even realize it until I saw a friend of mine who is kind of a skater guy. He has always been extremely exceptional with women and as we were talking I noticed what he was wearing. He has a lip ring, was wearing a beanie cap, had a chain wallet extending from his pocket to a belt loop, was wearing a watch, about two rings, a necklace, blue jeans, skater shoes, a design printed t-shirt, and of course was carrying a skateboard. Just looking at him you wouldn’t really notice all that at once but women notice this stuff.
This is exactly what a guy would do if he was trying to peacock. He would wear a lot of accessories and interesting items. My friend was actually peacocking and expressing his personality and passions in the form of the skateboard, skater shoes, and just his overall look.
The look fits him and I am sure he attracts plenty of skater girls. Almost all of my other “natural” friends actually peacock as well in their own personal way.
This just reminds me how dead-on a lot of dating advice websites are. A lot of the methods are popular methods for a reason and that is they are based off of what actually works. You may not be a “natural” but you can read, learn the game, and emulate them. The best part is if you continue reading and continue growing yourself you can even surpass their game since most guys on their own will remain relatively stagnant.
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