For some guys this may be common sense. You know what though? You still need to hear it. This needs to be repeated as much as possible to men trying to get women.
I don’t care what your skill level is, what you want out of a relationship, how awesome you think you are… You need to hear this.
As men, we encounter a lot of tense situations. It is inherent in the getting girls process. Whether you have approach anxiety, trouble calling the girl, trouble with the first kiss… whatever.
I know this sounds simple but it is so true it is not even funny. To improve with dating is basically to improve a collection of skills that are related to dating. Conversation, body language, self esteem, whatever. A skill that I would be practically nothing without is the ability to say FUCK IT! Simple right? WRONG.
There are tons of situations throughout my life that have been tense, first phone calls, first kisses, first dates, conversations, approaching women, and even relating to women in general is a tense subject for any guy at some point. Even now… that I am extremely confident and do exceptionally well with girls, Even now… I still get some approach anxiety.
Do you know what’s different about it now compared to when I started out. I have gotten a lot better at saying “Fuck It!” and just going for it.
I remember the first like 4 make outs I ever had with girls I had no idea how to make the first move at all. I don’t even know where I got the guts period. It’s almost like I just blacked out and at some point just dived and went for it. I don’t know how I got the nerve to say Fuck It then, but you know what you will learn about this ability? It gets easier the more you do it.
Now first kisses are easy for me, hell getting girls period is easy. The honest truth about it all is I owe a lot of that skill to “Fuck It.” It is the Macgyver tool for any dating situation.
Messed up an opener?
Can’t go in for the first kiss?
Go rejected by a set?
Made a bad joke?
Don’t know what to say on the phone?
Don’t know how to text her?
Don’t know if she is truely attracted to you?
FUCK IT! Just go for it.