With Valentines Day finally here I couldn’t let it pass without giving some Myspace and Facebook dating advice.
Valentines is a day centered around passion and romanticism. A big part of both of these is enthusiasm.
Meeting girls on Facebook and Myspace is not any different. You have to be enthusiastic when you talk with them. A lot of dating gurus will say that you should match the energy given off by the other person. If you meet a girl at a bar for example and she is really cutting loose and you are completely boring and dull it will probably not work out. Online is the same way you have to show energy in your messaging.
You could say “Hey, what’s up? we haven’t talked in a while” or you could say “Hey! We haven’t talked in forever! What’s up?” It may seem a little “girly” but it has a lot more energy and basically screams for a response. Not only that but she will be more energetic in her response. If you get energy going in a conversation its alot easier to convert that what I call “potential energy” in the conversation into a “kinetic energy” of you two actually meeting up.
Now it may be a little late to get a Facebook or Myspace Valentines date. If you start meeting new people or adding enthusiasm into the conversations with the people you currently talk to on these social networks though, you will be increasing your success and have a waiting list for you by next year.