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Date Demon Will Be In Vegas!!

I will be in Vegas somewhere between the 7-10th of November.  I will be attending the Blog World Expo and will be ready to have a blast.  The last Vegas trip I had was less than a year ago but that city is constantly changing.  If you have any advice for the trip or if you will be in the area and maybe want to meet up, for lunch, to wing, anything let me know.  You can reach me through the Contact Page or by leaving a comment.

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I have been going out lately experimenting and constantly throwing new variables into the already complex world of social dynamics. One variable remains constant, having a good wingman can make a world of difference. I am comfortable enough with myself and good enough with social networking and working a room that I sometimes go out to bars or clubs completely alone. To be honest, I even do pretty well when I am alone.

That’s the thing though, I do “pretty well.” If you have a good wingman when you go out it makes a ton of difference. Even if you are comfortable and socially adaptable enough to handle almost every situation, having a good wingman if nothing else makes your life so much easier. Instead of having to pull an MVP play to isolate a girl away from her annoying friend, a good wingman can run interference and you don’t even have to worry about making that perfect maneuver.

Saturday night I went out with the best wingman and guy friend I have. We walked into the bar with a smile on our faces like we owned the place and started putting out the “fun” vibe. We talked to a random person or two on the way in and then went to a prime scouting location and started laughing about who knows what. It was really just a showing of our having a good timeness and not that we were actually saying anything of value to each other. He scanned one side of the room, I scanned the other, we counted the sets, decided which to start with, and we went to work.

Not only can a good wingman help you with interference and isolation but you can work off each other. You can also open sets twice as fast. You can start with one and he can open another and then you can merge the two or just tell them you will come back later and then you have a perfect doorway into two sets later. You can run accomplishment intros, where you basically brag about how awesome your friend is before he gets to the set, or you can even assist each other in a ton of different ways. If he is talking with a girl, you could say what a cute couple they make.

The bottom line is I don’t care how awesome of a PUA or guy you are, if you go out with a good wingman he will multiply your success with no extra effort.

Getting women with a good wingman is not the hard part, it is finding a good wingman for getting women that is actually more difficult.

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