I recently added a new Facebook application that deals with dating on Facebook. It doesn’t matter what kind of a Facebook profile layout you have or how nice your profile is, with this application the only thing that people will see is your picture. Now before your mind begins to wonder what I mean by dating, I don’t mean this Facebook application will set you up on dates. It is not some miracle application with girls kissing and a line forming of girls waiting to go out with you. You are actually going to have to do some work (if you call it that.)

            Flirtable is an application which currently has over 220,000 active members. This Facebook application works with the same kind of Facebook profile layout as Hot or NOT. The main difference is instead of saying you want to meet a girl based on her profile picture, you click a button saying you want to “flirt” with her. The girls on the program can also send you private messages if they want to flirt with you. That’s the best thing about this application though you can actually send anyone you see a message. So now comes the all important question…

How Do I Meet Girls Using Flirtable???

That’s the best part all of the advice I have given you for Facebook in general and for messaging girls can all apply here because you are basically just messaging girls! This is just another tool for you to meet single girls that want to meet a single guy and it will give you a very good conversation starter since they were on Flirtable as well! Not only that, but the girls can only see your picture so no matter how poorly you worded your profile. No matter how cluttered your profile is with applications or whatever, the only impression she will get is not from your Facebook profile layout but from your picture and your carefully crafted messages.

Well get to flirting and good luck!!

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Do you want to be the best kisser in the world? This guide will show you a few techniques that might just get you to that point.

Now a good kisser, is one who is willing to be creative and try new things. Sometimes this may be goofy, sensual, passionate, or even lead to funny mishaps.

My goal here and as I am writing this post is to take you average to decent kissers out there and add a few tricks to your kissing arsenal to mix things up. Who knows you may become the best kisser ever!

Heres a few of my tricks: (more…)

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You need to learn how to meet girls on social networking sites if you are single. Why? Whether you have realized it yet or not, and you can quote me on this, social networks are going to be the equivalent of Ebay to the online dating world. By that I mean anyone will be able to get involved easily and the market will be nearly unlimited.

So how can you get in on this? How can you meet women on Facebook?

The answer to this is actually harder to decipher. Hardly any websites are even talking about these concepts besides some of the dating community forums and even worse the few actual websites that do talk about this subject seem to be taking the easy way out.

What do I mean by this? If you type “How to meet girls on Facebook” into Google The first 2 results will both be “How I Meet Girls On Facebook Consistently.” This article is so simple it can be completely summarized in one sentence. Ask your friends on facebook to set you up with their friends. THAT’S IT. The entire article.

What if you have already done this with no success? What if you have very few friends? Do you just get your friends to make the date plans? Do you message the girl on facebook after your friend says she should meet you? What if your friends don’t even know any girls worth dating? The whole article even says you should make new friends before doing this! If you knew how to meet people on Facebook the proper way you wouldn’t need advice on how to meet girls on Facebook in the first place!

Unfortunately the other Google results are almost just as bad. Result #3 is not even worth mentioning considering it doesn’t think Facebook is worth mentioning at all in the article.

Which leads us to result number #4 “Facebook Dating Secrets - How To Meet Women On Facebook.” FINALLY THE FACEBOOK DATING SECRETS ARE REVEALED! I would have definitely gone there sooner if I knew deep dark secrets like “Connect is the next step after you have found a few women who are a friend of a friend then you want to contact them via the send message feature. Warning do not poke or add as a friend until after you have connected with them. There is a big difference between contacting a woman online and actually connecting with her. Does she respond to your message? When then you have made a connection.” I don’t even know why you are still reading this article after that gem of a secret was revealed. I think you are an expert now and you can handle it. If only you had known sooner that Facebook actually had a message feature!!

Now I will give the article some credit though it did give one good tip buried in all the rubble. “You want to make sure you include a call to action in every email you send out to a woman which leads to you both taking the first step.” This was like a ray of light at last. Every Facebook message you send to a girl should have a call to action he is right about this. What is a call to action? Usually it is just a question that she can get excited about so you are more likely to get a response. Some examples could be “So do you like being a graphic design major?” or “I noticed that your profile said you liked XYZ movie, I would have to say my favorite part was when X and Y happened, what was your favorite part of the movie?” A call to action could also be a statement but for meeting purposes I would stick to questions.

Right when I finally thought the article might be getting good he states “Negotiate is the next step, you need to negotiate talking on the phone and going on a date or to a party together. You are the one who is responsible for this part of the proceedings, you are the man you need to take the lead.” Did he ever consider that you are looking for dating advice because you had trouble negotiating umm… DATES!?

This is already getting extremely long but I will give 3 very important tips to remember when you get to this phase: 1. Give a reason besides being a “date” for meeting up. For example you might say “you seem like you are a really cool person we should get together and talk in person sometime.” That is so much less pressure than a nearly blind date and doesn’t sound like nearly as big of a commitment. 2. Give a time frame. Example: I think I could spare 30 minutes to get together either Thursday or Friday afternoon/evening, which day would be better for you? 3. State a location and use the words get together. For some reason word choice makes a big difference and “get together” does not have a negative connotation and yet implies you two will be getting closer. Example: “That is so awesome that we share a passion for (insert subject), we should get together at (insert location/ coffee shop/ wherever) and talk in person sometime. I think I could spare 30 minutes on either Thursday or Friday evening/afternoon. Which day would be better for you?”

Next is two random video results and then the #7 result at the time of writing this is “Facebook: How To Meet Women Online.“ This article actually does do a decent job talking about the initial message you should send specifically in the advice “Keep that first message short and sweet.” The only thing is the article is really short and it says that the first thing you should do is just start poking a lot of girls. While this is better than not contacting new girls at all, from my experience most girls will think of you as just another horny sleazy guy (which you could be but that’s not the point.) Instead you should take his advice and send a short and sweet first message.

The message should be 1-4 sentences and should include a call to action as one of those. For example if you only had one sentence it should be your call to action. Ex: I saw that you are a graphic design major, are you interested more in digital art or painting?. Now this is a very weak example but it is short and it does give her a reason to respond and if you sent out messages just like this tailored slightly like changing the major or whatever you would be surprised that even this short of a message will get ok results. I will go into messaging and other topic more in depth in other articles.

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There are a lot of online dating sites out there that have discussed myspace and dating. Some of this information will overlap with other dating sites but as you know, or should know, at Date Demon we strive to bring you original content. Therefore, while some of this may not be new to everyone, we at least tried to put our own unique and useful twist on it.

This is part one of the Date Demon guide for finding, browsing, attracting, and potentially dating girls using myspace. This will be a long article but definitely useful and I hope you will pass it along to your friends. (more…)

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I made it a personal goal to meet one new woman every day. After about two weeks of doing that, I raised the number to two. It then gradually increased. How many women do I meet per day now? At a minimum four.

Four may not seem like a lot or even that difficult… If I met four new women per day, for one year, that would total to 1,460 women. Yes 4 x 365 is 1460. That is a lot of women.

I would recommend though you start out with the goal of just meeting one. This may sound easy in theory but it is incredibly difficult at first. Not the physical act of doing it, but the mental act of being able to walk up and start a conversation with someone you don’t know.

Here are six tips:

1. Always be on the move. It is like dating inertia, an object in motion will naturally continue in motion and an object at rest will naturally remain at rest. If you are walking around and you see a girl that you want to approach it is so much easier to just continue your walk to them than it is to stand up or start walking from your standing still spot over to them.

2. You don’t have to be perfect. Most women during the day are not like the girls at bars and clubs. They have not been hit on by other guys all day. They do not have their shields raised and defenses up. They will not be expecting a guy to walk up to them. This will not only make them as nervous or more nervous than you are but this also means your opening line doesn’t have to be that great. It doesn’t have to be perfect, it just has to be ok enough to get a conversation started.

3. Act comfortable. Even if you are not comfortable when approaching a girl act like it is just a normal event. If you are uncomfortable about it, she will be uncomfortable about it. If you act like it is completely normal she is 100 times more likely to really get into a conversation.

4. Be aware of time constraints. This is a huge difference between a daytime approach and a nighttime approach. When you walk up to a female at a bar, she planned to go out and be social for hours that night. That is what they are there to do! During the day, however, they have many other events planned. They could be on a bench waiting for a friend, on their way to a business meeting, or whatever. You should be aware of or become aware of their time situation and plan your conversation accordingly.

5. Don’t hinge on an outcome. Sometimes it just won’t work out! It could be a busy day for her. It could be a lousy day for her. It could be an anti-social day for her. The bottom line is you never know their situation completely so don’t take it to heart if a few girls are unreceptive to your approach. Not to mention there will probably be a number of times where as said before the woman has a time restraint like a business meeting or whatever event. Sometimes you also just might not be able to get her number or set up a date or whatever before she has to leave. The timing could just be off and you cannot control that. If you go in without an outcome in mind you won’t be disappointed no matter what happens and it is all a learning experience.

6. Fit time into your routine. Make time in your daily routine to meet women. If you are going grocery shopping plan to take an extra 10 minutes at the grocery store in case you happen to meet someone on aisle 7. If you are going to eat lunch, go to a store, or whatever, leave yourself a little time in case you see someone you want to approach.

It takes a lot of guts to walk up to a girl and start a conversation. It is just not easy mentally and that is the truth. Once you do it a few times though you will realize it really isn’t that bad.

Most guys when they see an attractive woman say “Wow! she is pretty hot,” or some variation of that and then they just stand there and watch. I am the kind of guy that now says “Wow! she is pretty hot and I am going over there to talk with her.”

I may get rejected, it may start well and fizzle out, or who knows I may even get her number or go on a date with her right there on the spot. The point is I never know until I actually try. I would rather try and not succeed with a woman I will never see again in my life, than to not try and always wonder what could have been. Not only that but when you do succeed, it is all worth it!!

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