With Valentines Day finally here I couldn’t let it pass without giving some Myspace and Facebook dating advice.

Valentines is a day centered around passion and romanticism.  A big part of both of these is enthusiasm.

Meeting girls on Facebook and Myspace is not any different.  You have to be enthusiastic when you talk with them.  A lot of dating gurus will say that you should match the energy given off by the other person.  If you meet a girl at a bar for example and she is really cutting loose and you are completely boring and dull it will probably not work out.  Online is the same way you have to show energy in your messaging.

You could say “Hey, what’s up? we haven’t talked in a while”  or you could say “Hey! We haven’t talked in forever! What’s up?”  It may seem a little “girly” but it has a lot more energy and basically screams for a response.  Not only that but she will be more energetic in her response.  If you get energy going in a conversation its alot easier to convert that what I call “potential energy” in the conversation into a “kinetic energy” of you two actually meeting up.

Now it may be a little late to get a Facebook or Myspace Valentines date.  If you start meeting new people or adding enthusiasm into the conversations with the people you currently talk to on these social networks though, you will be increasing your success and have a waiting list for you by next year.

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            The New Year is definitely a time for reflection and for pondering what is to come. At Date Demon it is no different. Before I get to the new I wanted to discuss with you the old.

I have been giving dating advice for as long as I can remember and one of the key factors that is involved in any of these sessions is the “need.” Everyone that I have given advice to has had at that point a specific need for their dating life. Whether they wanted to meet more women and get more dates, whether they just wanted to have more success with the women they did meet, or whether they had a particular woman or relationship in mind, in all cases they had a need.

So what does that have to do with DateDemon.com? I want to know what your needs are! Tell me what I should write about. Now this can be as specific as you giving me background on a specific relationship you are in and me providing my expertise or as broad as “I want to date multiple girls.”

I have even given girls advice multiple times and I know this site is geared more towards guys but if any women out there have any questions that don’t boil down to “quit dating jerks” then send me an email! Anyone can contact me at vic[at]datedemon.com .

Lastly before we get to the new I wanted to share with you the Three posts that were my favorites from 2007 and explain why.

Online Dating: Meeting Girls On Myspace This article is my favorite so far because it gives a huge amount of very useful information for those that want to meet women using Myspace.

The 6 Most Important Rules For Dating On Myspace And Facebook This article is my second favorite since it sums up all the reasons why online dating is a great.

6 Tips For Meeting Women During The Day I know this one doesn’t deal with online dating but it is still a favorite. This article made it to the top 3 because it makes a really great point. If you meet just a few girls a day you will be swimming in women before you know it. Not only that but since I have had 1000’s of encounters with women during the day, this article will always be a top priority article.

Ok now on to the new! I know you are tired of waiting! Today I am going to share one of the best tips and online dating tools ever. I don’t think any other site has ever mentioned this and or even thought of this and I use it ALL THE TIME!!!

RoboForm. I know what you are thinking. What the hell is RoboForm?

RoboForm is a password manager to use online to keep track of your passwords and allow you log into websites with the click of a button. So what does this have to do with online dating??

Not only can RoboForm keep track of all your passwords for various sites like Facebook, Myspace, Xuqa, Yahoo Personals, Hi5, or whatever but RoboForm has a Form Filling ability. That means instead of typing a message to send to the opposite sex you can click on the form filling tab of RoboForm and set it up to automatically fill in Facebook or Myspace messages! With this kind of tool it takes literally about 1 second to send a message to someone and it will type the subject, message, and everything for you.

If you don’t have RoboForm you should definitely check it out!

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There are a lot of online dating sites out there that have discussed myspace and dating. Some of this information will overlap with other dating sites but as you know, or should know, at Date Demon we strive to bring you original content. Therefore, while some of this may not be new to everyone, we at least tried to put our own unique and useful twist on it.

This is part one of the Date Demon guide for finding, browsing, attracting, and potentially dating girls using myspace. This will be a long article but definitely useful and I hope you will pass it along to your friends. (more…)

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I am constantly asked by guys to look over their online profile and give them pointers to improve it. Every guy’s profile I have ever seen by request has needed a lot of serious work. I am not saying that there is one particular right way to set up your profile. It is YOUR PROFILE it should be about you. The way you portray yourself however, makes a lot of difference. If you turned in a resume to a company that was written in crayon on torn shreds of paper, you are not going to get hired.

In an online profile it is not necessarily what information you should present since you know who you are. It is how you display this information that is important. This display may range in the layout of your profile, your word choice, your applications, your profile music selection, the groups you join, or various other mediums.

Know Your Profile’s Role

The best overall guideline for setting up your profile is not to just make a random collage of yourself but rather to make your online profile with your goals in mind. If you want to use your facebook or myspace profile for business purposes, then by all means you should set up and fill in your information to better suit this purpose.

If you are setting up your profile to help with your social networking and in particular dating, however, then you need to set it up with certain dating goals in mind.

The First Thing You Have To Remember: Your Profile Is A Tool

I love it when I meet a new woman and she says she has myspace or facebook. Why you ask? My profiles work for me. They are like tools that add extra leverage in my dating life. Not only am I ok with them going to my online profiles I will encourage it because I have already set up my profiles to highlight the attractive qualities about myself.

Would you be more attracted to a girl that is having a bad hair day with no make up and some outfit she threw together at the last minute or one that has put on her best looking clothes, and fixed herself up to perfection? Your profile is your chance to display the very best of you at all times 24/7 and best of all without you having to physically be there.

Basic Tips:

Have good profile pictures. You don’t have to delete every picture you don’t look great in but you should probably get rid of the worst ones. I don’t care how funny that picture of you drunk hugging a trash can in your boxers is, it is not going to help you with anything.

Keep up to date with events. Especially on facebook, keep up to date and RSVP to local events. Let people know you are social and meet people going to the same events. If nothing else just know what is going on around where you live just so you are in the loop.

Show off your best qualities! If you are funny make some of your profile humorous. Artistic? Add the graffiti facebook application. Nerdy? Add the Jedi vs. Sith Application, Intellectual? Have some awesome quotes or favorite books.

Invite a following. Update your status pretty often, post a bulletin or two, change your profile picture, post on other walls on occasion, tell others about the events you are going to, share cool stuff on your profile. In other words give people an excuse to comment on and stay involved with your profile. I started a group on facebook when I lost my cell phone to get numbers from all my friends. The group description literally said that everyone should not join the group or leave immediately after they joined. The group was started about a year ago and there is currently about 80 members still in it. Not because it is an actual group of worth but because I have established a loyal following.

Leverage your connections. Facebook is all about connections. It is in fact a place for you to connect and maintain connections with others. Most people on facebook talk with their friends but very few actually use their friends as leverage to make other friends. If you see a cute girl, see which friends you have in common, if a friend posts a photo album with an attractive lady in it send her a message and say that you were looking through your friends photos and her picture was funny or whatever. You can meet a ton of girls just by leveraging the connections you already have without any involvement whatsoever on your friend’s part.

Well this is running a bit long and I could go on for quite a while… The bottom line is determine how you want your online profile to help you and build it around that purpose.

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I haven’t posted in a while and I am getting a little behind.  I am really busy with a lot of projects in my life and not only that but I am trying to balance that with dating multiple women as well.  I have dated multiple girls in the past and I always tell myself I will never do it again because of the time commitment but I like women… so I am back again…

One of the projects I am working on which will be of great interest to many of the Date Demon readers is I am writing an ebook exclusively about dating on facebook and myspace.  Everything from who to target to the exact messages to send.  I don’t know when my next post will be or when I will finish the book but if you would like more information about it contact me using the Contact Page or at info@datedemon.com

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