If I asked you right now, “What is the most exciting thing that has happened to you today?” How would you respond? Most of you right now are scanning your brains and a few of you might even be able to think of an event. But you know what? Even the few that can think of something at all, just admit it, the event you thought of wasn’t even THAT exciting.
The truth is life for the most part is dull. Well before you become a master PUA (pick up artist) and get swarmed with women that is. Either way and more importantly, Girls Have Dull Lives! So what does that mean?
If you approach a woman, you are most likely the most exciting thing that has happened to that girl all day.
“Can I ask you a question really quick but I have to go soon,” “I was wondering though, what is the most exciting thing that has happened to you today?” She thinks a second and then responds with a “I don’t know” or “nothing really.” “No I mean besides talking with me, what is the most exciting thing?” She responds the same. “Well then you are lucky I started talking with you because …,” then you can just talk about anything you want.
Not only could you add this to your girl opening toolbox but you can also ask this question during any conversation with a girl.
I love this angle with dating and meeting women. Usually as the girl comes to the realization that nothing exciting has happened to her in some time, the girl begins to think that she should get out more, meet new people, experience new things (you ), and just live in the moment. What an awesome mental state to have a girl in when you are meeting her for the first time!
If you highlight how dull everything else is to the girl you are meeting, it will make you seem more exciting by comparison to her.
Another great way to follow this angle with women is to go straight into the 5 Questions game. There is a video on YouTube of Neil Strauss, “Style,” demonstrating this game with a girl. Not only is this game extremely entertaining for the girl you are meeting, but you can even make a silly bet with her and its a great time to get in some physical contact a.k.a kino. Neil Strauss bets a drink with the girl for example.
When the girl has just realized nothing exciting has happened to her all day, to follow that realization with this game is a great combination. I will insert a link to this video at the end of this article. I would recommend everyone check it out. The game is great even outside of dating girls.
I really hope this helps a lot of guys out there. If you realize that her life is dull or even just assume her life is dull and that you are helping her by bringing some change and excitement, it can lead to many benefits. Not only will you have a good fall back in any situation but it should help you with approach anxiety. If nothing else it’s just another tool in your dating toolbox.
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5 Questions Game Youtube Video Link
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